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Universal Church of Miracle Enlightenment



Questions and Answers -- Q & A

Question:  Do the church ministers officiate at weddings?  If so, what is the fee?

Answer:  Yes, we do, and we also officiate at baby blessings, memorial services, and wherever a minister's services are needed. We are happy to help.  A donation to the church is appreciated for the service.  

Comment:  Thank you so much!  You explained that very well for me.  My husband laid his body down and I constantly feel his Spirit.  I talk to him, but I do not want to hold him back here, but I have had trouble “letting go.”  I am a Course student for 35 years and this transition has been my greatest challenge as he did not want to leave and lived a long time w/out food and water.  I thank you and bless you for your reply.  (Submitted by bfm on February 14, 2018.)


Response:  You and your husband are still together and will never be apart.  Your spirit and his have always, are always and will always be One.  He is relieved of the cumbersomeness of his body now, which is a blessing to him and therefore to you.  You will remember your Oneness with him and all your “brothers” as you awaken in spirit with the help of the Holy Spirit.  We are all eternally together in truth.  GLORY BE.


Question:   If there is NO death . . . are there SOULS who did not want to leave, who are now earthbound? (Submitted by BF on February 9, 2018)


Answer:  There is no death because God did not create death.  Anything He did not create is not real.   He did not create bodies either, which appeared after the “separation,” so they also are not real.  Only love is real.  In fact, we are all spirit "in a state of grace forever” and are still with the Father, having never left.  We are DREAMING we are here on this earth.  So no SOULS are earthbound.  In fact, the earth itself is not real, having not been created by the Father.  Would a loving Father create an alternate home for His Son that is rife with strife?  Certainly not.


I hope this answers your question.  If you want a more “down-to-earth” answer, please let me know and thank you for writing.

References:  T-1.III.5:4


Message:   Hello. I've been a student of nondual awakening teachings for about 8 years. And I've had many emotional/mental burdens lightened by investigating these teachings. But recently I've been doing one acim lesson per day. I just finished lesson 30. But even by lesson 15 or 16 I had noticed the most progress in the shortest time I've ever experienced. My life has become very simple and I've lost all desire for "normal" social interaction. But I'm feeling more and more drawn to seeking communication and some sort of mentorship or spiritual family. Preferably in-person rather than online. but I haven't found any acim groups in my area. I live in spanaway wa. The nearest meeting I've found is in Redmond which would require 3-4 hours of travel since I have no vehicle. I'd really appreciate any direction you could give me or even better if you know of someone who'd be willing to work with me. (Separate question: I see there is some online ucome discussion group. But I see no link to it) Thank you.  (Submitted by Otter rivers on October 29, 2017)

Answer: Hello, Otter (Joshua), I have been in touch with the teacher of a class in Auburn, Wa., which is about 23 miles from Spanaway.  I have asked him if he has a student who can give you a lift to class and have sent you his information.  I am so glad the Course is working for you.  On the website (www.UCome.org) there is a weekly Workbook Review which may be helpful to you in your studies.  There is a Contact page where you may ask questions or make comments, which with your permission will be addressed on the Q & A page.  The link to the discussion is being activated by Google and may take another few days to effect. The website was devised partially to give students access to an online class if they do not have one locally. I am happy to have a one-on-one with Course students -- whether they are local or out-of-town, and will be happy to study with you. I understand you do not want to have normal "social" contacts. The Course says the fastest way to Enlightenment is through "holy relationships," so I hope you will continue to shine your light with others, and they with you.  Our email address is [email protected] if you want to use it. Reverend Lori   


Comment:  Try the Bible.  Jesus said "I am the way the truth and the life" (Submitted by JW on October 17, 2017)

Answer:  Yes, and he also says that numerous times in A Course in Miracles.   We are on the same page, JW, even if we are not in the same book. Jesus also says "I am always with you."  And then, "Because I am always with you, you are the way, the truth and the life."  This is why I also read the Course, JW.  It amplifies the Bible.  Will you join us?

References:  ACIM:  Text Chapter 7, Section III, Paragraph 1, Sentences 7 and 9.

Comment:  Spirit is directly connected to the Source, hence Higher Self; sees bigger picture & exact opposite to Soul.  (Submitted by BD on October 16, 2017)

Answer:  The term "soul" is not used in the Course except in direct biblical quotations because of its highly controversial nature.  It would, however, be an equivalent of "spirit," with the understanding that, being of God, it is eternal and was never born.  Thus spirit and soul are not the "exact opposite" as the above comment indicates.  "Spirit" and "soul" are the same.  "Spirit" is the Thought of God which He created like Himself.  The unified spirit is God's one Son, or Christ. Spirit is the part that is still in contact with God through the Holy Spirit, Who abides in this part but sees the other part as well.  The other part of the mind (ego) is entirely illusory and makes only illusions.

References:  ACIM:  Clarification of Terms, 1. MIND -- SPIRIT, paragraphs 1,2,3.                                                                                                                                                                              

Question:  What do you say to a woman who is speaking only negatively about her deceased husband? (Submitted by J.D. on July 31, 2017)

Answer:  Thank you for your question, J.D. You may ask the woman if her negative thoughts  about her deceased husband are bringing her peace?  If the answer is no, then you may suggest she ask for another way of seeing him -- one that WILL bring peace. This way you are not judging and also not advising, just ASKING and OFFERING a suggestion.  There is more than one way to view everything here on this earth!! 

Comment:  Dear Lori, I think your website is terrific, and you are clearly one of the true scholars on A Course in Miracles.  So I am pleased that the site is going up and that it has a true Authority behind it.  I feel certain that you will enjoy a positive outcome, and good participation.  (Submitted by Marie A. on June 17, 2017)

Answer: Thank you for your appreciative words, Marie. The Church appreciates you and your help as well. You are a true blessing!

Question:  I have had difficulty breathing ever since I moved to the seaside of California.  Did God give me this condition? Like, is there a reason I have this difficulty; is there a lesson here that I need to learn? 

Answer:  God gave you everything you need in your creation, and "breathing difficulty" was not on that list.  God's Will for us is perfect happiness, and life is clearly happier when we are clearly breathing.  Choose to be a "happy learner" and watch these "difficulties" pass away into the nothingness from which they came.  This is a happy lesson to learn from this situation.

References:  ACIM:  Workbook Lesson 101.h; ACIM: T-14.II -- The Happy Learner.

Question:   Is there a way I can be "real" in this world of illusion and still be kind?  Does being real necessarily involve being blunt?

Answer:  It is sometimes thought that being "blunt" is being real, and the action is often followed by this sentence "I am just being real." Yet we are the most "real" in this worldly illusion when we are being kind, compassionate and loving. You can speak "concisely" without being "blunt."   Wisdom and Kindness are excellent companions. Jesus depicted this beautifully when he is reported to have said "He who is among you without sin, let him first throw a stone . . ."  He could have chastised them, yet he chose otherwise.  He used wisdom coupled with kindness.  His words were more instructive and helpful, than critical and blunt. He taught that as you see your brother/sister, so do you see yourself. He helped the would-be stone throwers to see things differently.  His words were so powerful that they evoked peace. ONLY LOVE IS REAL. 

Reference:   Lamsa Bible:  John 8:1-11 (7).

Comment:  Your web site is beautiful.  As I read the words I felt the Love.  I am so excited for you, the world is a better place because of the wisdom and love you will be sharing through your church.  The heavens celebrate you.  Blessings. (Submitted by Lois J. on October 10, 2016)

Answer:  Thank you, Lois.  Your loving words are appreciated, as are you! 

Question:  I have learned so much from your classes, Rev. Lori, and I would like to make a contribution for all the hard work you put into teaching your classes . . . ?  (Submitted by Lois S. on October 5, 2016)

Answer:  Thank you, Lois, it is a JOY having you in my classes!  Your Course understanding and wisdom is appreciated by us all. Contributions can be made to the church via PayPal or other credit companies.  The "Donate" button is on the Contact Page, and at the top of most of the pages of the website.  

Question:  The mother-in-law image has really taken a toll on society over the last half century.  Comedians have taken it to the limit and others, too.  That seems so unfair.  I understand that some may deserve it, but surely not everyone falls in that category? (Submitted by A.F. on September 4, 2016)

Answer:  Mothers-in-law, and even mothers, have a different row to hoe when their offspring marry.  It brings new relationships that must be developed, and a definite change in role.  For example, my son is still my son even after he marries, but I must remember that he is an adult now and can make his own decisions.  I still listen, and I speak when the Holy Spirit guides me to speak, but mostly I just enjoy him.  As for daughters-in-law and sons-in-law, a lot depends upon how they want the relationship to develop with a mother-in-law, and also between the mother-in-law and their grandchildren.  Some accept more love and attention and assistance from their mother-in-law than others do.  Some take their cue from the experience of their parents, and hopefully it was a happy one. The mother-in-law has to take the cue from the daughter- or son-in-law, and abide by their choice.  A happy relationship cannot be foisted upon anyone.  I must admit that the relationships can be challenging, yet the situation can also be ripe for humor.  Just remember that all relationships are lessons in love, so follow the Holy Spirit as He guides you through them.  Let them help you to learn and grow.  And be patient. Remember, when following the Holy Spirit a happy outcome to all things is sure!

Reference:  ACIM:  W-pII.292.h.

Question:  Why do some "Christians" treat some people fairly and kindly, and treat others with disdain?  It would seem that if people go to church, and study the Bible and other religious writings, that kindness and mercy, fairness and love would be reflected in all their encounters, not just in some! (Submitted by Lynne R. on September 4, 2016)

Answer:  Going to church and studying the Bible do not a Christian make.  Love, kindness and mercy come from within, not from a building or a book, and extend to everyone when it is truly true.  Christianity is not a pick-and-choose thought system.  It is All -- not all or nothing, and not even for most -- but for ALL.  Christianity is INclusive, not EXclusive.  Remember that anything that is not appearing as love, is appearing as a "call for love."  The Answer, then, is love, no matter the form of the "call."

Question:  Why do I dislike being corrected?  And how do I overcome this to accept correction with grace? (Submitted by A.F. on September 3, 2016)

Answer:  The adversity to correction is of the ego.  Correction is embarrassing only to the ego which wants you to think it knows everything.  Yet in order to overcome this response to correction, you must see correction differently.  Correction in the course is actually a miracle.  "A miracle is a correction introduced into false thinking by (Jesus). It acts as a catalyst, breaking up erroneous perception and reorganizing it properly (thus) perception is healed."  One of the ways in which we are truly helpful to each other is through correction. Errors lead us away from God. Truth leads us toward Him.  So wanting correction for an error is a blessing.  It is the way we LEARN AND GROW in the lord.  Why would anyone want to keep an error?  Why would anyone want a blockage on the path to God?  Love a person enough to care that they know the truth and that they be set free from error. In fact, you might almost say to relish being alerted to mistakes, so they can ALL be corrected, and thus you can get higher and nearer to truth and to God.  Yet, as with anything, correction must be done under the guidance of the Holy Spirit with forthright honesty, standing firm in the truth, and above all with kindness and with LOVE.  True correction is both given and received with God's grace.

Reference:  ACIM -- T-1.36., Principles of Miracles

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